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Men and Dating

Men ARE simple creatures-not because of nature or nurture it’s how they choose to be. To achieve happiness they want what anyone wants: respect, love, admiration, care and friendship but on their terms and when they are ready for it. In return they give what they can when they can; there are many types of men but the ‘ladies man’ has a mystery and confidence and unassuming nature that both excites and appeals to the broadest range of women who are subsequently intrigued, assured and interested by these men.

There are as always stereotypical dates- the dinners, the walks and so on which work initially with a hint of originality (dinner on a canal boat-near miss until she saw the funny side of it) but these have to be interspersed with dates she appreciates (eg. She loves cycling-pub crawl? or staying in those Second hand campervans for the weekend?). Yet in this day and age both sexes are jaded and tend to see romance (or the like) as a thing for later on-but if you take the time and effort-the vibrant hopeful woman will re-appear and your efforts will ALWAYS be rewarded.

Each woman wants to be the one you remember-in other word the one that left a mark and got under your skin and so must be treated as a friend, lover and woman simultaneously. If you don’t want very much for very long, say so and see her reaction as nowadays, especially in the city ‘gentlemen’s agreements’ are increasingly popular for the Mrs. Right-Now.

A genuine success has been always with someone you never expect-it doesn’t have to be forever but for the moment it feels good. She maybe anybody but something (humour, likes, looks) makes you want to see more and a genuine interest will always be appreciated-anything forced will be spotted and duly noted.

Serial dating can be fun and also a learning curve and you can find a few things out about yourself along the way but watch yourself and maintain the perspective of living in the moment to enjoy your time the most.

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